The point of our lives and salvation is not our comfort, but God's glory. Understanding this requires maturity in our faith. He is a loving God. That love was what initially caused Him to give His Son Jesus to live as us and die for us, even while we were still unsaved sinners. God gives us the strength to withstand and grow from trials, and then blesses us when we do what He has enabled us to do. As we echo God's love back to Him and to the rest of those Jesus died to save, we are blessed. The blessing is not fleeting comfort in this passing world, but perfect salvation from death: everlasting life as adopted sons and daughters of the King of kings so that we can forever continue to give glory to Him.
Luke Harbaugh